THE GOD OF NIAGARA FALLS
Grace, Discipline and the Calling to Become Light
What can Niagara Falls teach us about God’s grace?
Don Kenobi reflects on grace, discipline, restoration and God’s calling for us to become light.
Timotheus walks slowly onto the stage. Behind him is the sound of rushing water. Not music. Water. Immense, unbroken and overwhelming. He stands silently for a moment, listening. Then he walks to the blackboard and writes:
“Because all things work together for good to those who love God.”
He looks towards the students. He listens to the water a little longer, then says quietly, almost to himself: I think that explains it.
ALL THINGS
Not everything that happens to us is good.
He turns from the board.
Let us be clear about that.
Betrayal is not good. Sickness is not good. Failure is not good. Humiliation is not good.
There are things that happen to human beings that are painful, unjust and sometimes almost unbearable.
But here is what Scripture says.
It does not say that all things that happen to us are good. It says, rather, that all things work together for good to those who love God.
He pauses.
To those who love God...
Another pause.
To those who love God...
He looks back at the words on the board.
Think about what that means.
It means that God can take what is not good and compel it to serve something good.
For those who truly love Him...
He pauses, as though reconsidering his words.
No. Let me say that somewhat differently.
The Lord can bend the trajectory of the stars. He can command the very light of the sun. He can summon winds, redirect rivers and make the laws of nature submit to His purpose.
And if that is what it takes...
He looks towards the students.
...then that is what He will do.
He is the Lord.
If that is what it takes, He will bend the stars, command the sun, summon the winds and redirect the rivers to make “all things work together” for your good.
He pauses.
The sound of the water continues.
THE GOD OF NIAGARA FALLS
Have you ever stood before Niagara Falls?
I do not mean that you have seen it in a photograph.
I do not mean that you have watched a video recorded by somebody else.
I mean, have you ever actually stood before it?
Because when you stand there, you do not merely see the water.
You hear it.
You feel it.
You are confronted by its power.
An immeasurable torrent of water plunges over those mighty falls:
Second after second.
Minute after minute....hour after hour, day after day.
It does not pause.
It does not become weary.
It does not stop to ask whether anybody is watching.
It simply pours.
Timotheus listens again.
That is what you have been hearing.
Niagara Falls.
I recorded it myself. And if you look carefully at the video being projected on the screen behind me...
He turns and looks towards the screen.
...you'll see me.
Timotheus pauses. Looks down at his feet. Rubs his chin thoughtfully.
And I think God's grace towards those He loves is like Niagara Falls.
It never ends.
It never pauses.
It never runs dry.
He looks again at the falls.
Think about this.
The God who created those mighty falls knows every molecule of water that tumbles over them.
He knows how much water has passed over them from the beginning of time. He knows how much is falling at this very moment. And He knows how much will flow tomorrow.
He turns slowly towards the students.
That same God knows you.
Not humanity in general.
Not the world as some collective abstraction.
You.
He pauses.
Think about that.
He knows every force that has risen against you. He knows every burden placed upon your shoulders. He knows the wounds you have hidden from those closest to you.
He knows every fear you have concealed, every battle you have fought in silence and everything you will require to overcome whatever opposition stands in your way.
He glances towards the falls again.
His grace for your journey is immeasurable.
He pauses.
The water continues to fall.
But there is something we must understand about grace.
WHEN GRACE IS MISUNDERSTOOD
Grace is not dangerous.
But human beings can become dangerous when we misunderstand it.
When people become too confident that God will always rescue them, they can begin to live recklessly. They stop watching their steps.
They stop examining their conduct. They stop listening to correction.
Eventually, they begin to imagine that because God is merciful, consequences no longer exist.
They tell themselves, “Whatever I do, God will forgive me.”
Timotheus shrugs slightly.
And perhaps He will.
But forgiveness does not always cancel discipline.
He walks to the blackboard and writes beneath the verse:
GRACE
Grace saves us.
But the God who saves us also loves us too much to leave us foolish, arrogant, careless and undisciplined.
And so He brings us under the yoke of correction.
Beneath GRACE, he writes:
DISCIPLINE
Those who rely upon grace while refusing discipline may eventually encounter disgrace.
He turns towards the students.
Grace without discipline will end in disgrace.
Pause.
Let me say that again.
Grace without discipline will end in disgrace.
God does not discipline us because His grace has failed.
He disciplines us because His grace is still working.
Discipline is not necessarily the withdrawal of divine love. Sometimes, it is among the strongest evidence that divine love remains.
Scripture tells us that the Lord disciplines those He loves.
And so He sometimes allows consequences to catch up with us. He permits us to stumble. Sometimes He allows the applause to cease, the doors to close and the things upon which we depended to disappear.
He places us under a yoke until we learn restraint. Until we learn obedience. Until we learn wisdom. Until we finally understand that grace is not permission to live recklessly.
Grace is the hand that saves us.
Discipline is the hand that teaches us how to remain standing after we have been saved.
Timotheus steps closer to the students.
DO NOT HELP GOD PUNISH HIS CHILDREN
But now listen carefully.
Because this is where many religious people become cruel.
When you see a man passing through what you believe to be a season of divine discipline, walking through his season of disgrace, do not take it upon yourself to enjoy his suffering.
Do not mock him. Do not deepen his humiliation. Do not add weight to the burden already bending his back.
And please, do not look upon him with disgust and call your cruelty righteousness.
You may even convince yourself that you are helping God punish him.
He shakes his head.
You are not.
God does not need your assistance to discipline His child.
If God has permitted that person to pass through the fire, He did not put him there so that you could pour petrol into it.
Perhaps the fire is there to correct him. Perhaps to humble him. Perhaps to refine him.
And ultimately, perhaps to raise him again.
What you call his destruction may merely be the dismantling of things that could no longer support his future.
What you call his disgrace may be divine discipline.
And what you think is the conclusion may only be the middle of the story.
He pauses.
So be careful.
The person you are pushing down today may be the very person God is preparing to lift tomorrow.
And if you take it upon yourself to deepen a disgrace that God intends only as discipline, you may suddenly discover something terrifying:
You are no longer merely standing against the person God intends to restore.
He pauses.
You may be standing in opposition to God Himself.
Timotheus lets the words hang for a moment, then walks slowly back to the blackboard.
Beneath DISCIPLINE, he writes:
RESTORATION
THE MIDDLE OF THE STORY
Divine discipline is not necessarily the end of the story.
It may feel like destruction. It may look like destruction. The person passing through it may even believe that everything has been lost.
But God is not always tearing down when it appears that He is tearing down. Sometimes He is removing what cannot support the life He is preparing to build.
He looks at the words on the board.
Grace saves.
Discipline corrects.
Restoration raises.
But why?
Why does God restore us?
Is restoration simply about returning us to comfort? Is it merely about giving us back our possessions, our reputation and our place among other people?
He shakes his head.
No. God restores us so that we may carry His light.
He writes one final word beneath the others:
LIGHT
THE CALLING TO BECOME LIGHT
God wants you to become His light in the world.
That is the destination towards which grace, discipline and restoration are carrying you.
But to become a light, you must first be willing to carry the Light.
You must believe that He is God.
Not a small God.
Not merely the God of the olden days.
Not a God whose power belonged only to Abraham, Moses, David and the prophets.
He is God today.
He is the God of the earth and the heavens. The God of the oceans and the stars.
The God of Niagara Falls and Jupiter.
The God of every distant world we have discovered and every mystery we have not yet begun to comprehend.
He looks towards the students.
And this immeasurable God loves you.
His grace is greater than the waters of Niagara. His discipline is evidence that He has not abandoned you. His restoration is proof that your worst season does not have the authority to write your final chapter.
WHEN A BROTHER FALLS
So when a brother falls, do not dance.
When a sister is disgraced, do not celebrate.
When God is disciplining one of His children, do not volunteer to become His executioner.
Stand nearby.
Pray.
Speak the truth, certainly, but speak it with mercy.
And when the lesson has been learned, extend your hand.
Because you do not know what God intends to make of the person whose humiliation you are presently witnessing.
Yesterday, he may have been reckless.
Today, he may be under discipline.
Tomorrow, he may become a light that leads thousands of people out of darkness.
Timotheus turns towards the blackboard.
Slowly, he draws a line connecting the four words.
GRACE → DISCIPLINE → RESTORATION → LIGHT
He steps back and studies what he has written.
ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER
Remember what we began with.
He points to the sentence at the top of the board.
“Because all things work together for good to those who love God.”
He looks again at the four words.
Perhaps this is how. Grace finds us. Discipline forms us. Restoration raises us.
And then God sends us back into the world to shine.
The sound of Niagara grows louder.
Timotheus says nothing.
For several seconds, he simply listens.
His grace does not pause.
It does not become weary.
It does not run dry.
It simply pours.
He looks towards the students.
Like Niagara Falls.
Long pause.
Then, almost as quietly as he began:
That is all I have to say about this matter.
Don Kenobi
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